THE SEX BLOG — page 2

Hands-on guidance through the jungle of your love life

What to Do for Winter Holidays...

The holiday season is here, and while "being naughty" might already be on your to-do list, why not elevate your festivities with something a little different? Sexy escapes, decadent...

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How Real Couple Adult Films Bring...

The adult film industry is evolving, and one of the most meaningful changes is the rise of real couple adult films. These home-made productions go beyond staged performances, offering viewers an...

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Introduce Phone Sex Games to Your...

Winter nights are long, but they don’t have to be boring. And you know that here at SpotYourJoy, we're all about the phone sex games ! Spice things up by gifting your partner a...

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Snowed In? How to Spice Up Winter...

Winter might bring icy roads and chilly nights, but being snowed in is the perfect excuse to turn up the heat indoors. Instead of bundling up, why not get creative with your partner and...

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World AIDS Day: How the Adult...

Every December 1, World AIDS Day brings global attention to the fight against HIV/AIDS, honoring those we've lost and reaffirming commitments to prevention, education, and support. It's a...

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How Much is Too Much? Healthy...

Male masturbation is a practice surrounded by contradictions. It’s a frequent punchline in jokes about men’s “over-abundant” sex drives, the stereotype of teenage boys...

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Chastity & The Cell: Kinky BDSM Phone...

Our November has been all about redefining abstinence with a kinky, playful twist. We’ve delved into Movember themes, male health, and how chastity can flip toxic narratives about sexual...

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Chastity Play for Female Subs

This month's articles have predominantly been about male sexuality, since Movember is in full swing. One of our contributions to male sexual and mental well-being is to abandon toxic alpha...

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Breaking the Cycle: Porn Addiction...

In the realm of men’s health, there’s no topic quite as loaded as “porn addiction.” It sparks heated debates, is a frequent target for societal moralizing, and continues...

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Chastity in the Digital Age: Making...

"No Nut November" might be trending, but who said abstinence needs to feel like a dreary march through denial? For some, abstinence is all about flexing their self-control muscles...

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Movember in Porn: New Masculinity and...

Movember’s focus on men’s health and challenging outdated notions of masculinity offers the perfect opportunity to re-examine how these themes are portrayed in the adult industry....

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Nofap: Can Abstinence Be Toxic?

In the spirit of Movember, as mustaches sprout up to raise awareness for men’s health, let’s dissect another “men’s health” trend: nofap. Just in case...

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How Movember is Changing Men’s...

With each November comes Movember—a month dedicated not only to celebrating mustaches but also to raising awareness around men’s health. The movement has grown from a quirky,...

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The Best Alternatives to Monogamy And...

In recent decades, the concept of monogamy has shifted from being the unquestioned standard to one of many valid relationship structures in the Western world. Historically, monogamy was often...

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The Peep Show is On! Celebrate Your...

Ever catch yourself getting just a bit too interested in a stranger’s public displays of affection or sneaking a glance when no one’s looking? That little rush of excitement? Yep,...

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Spotlight on Creativity: Why Porn...

Tuesday 22 October will be the first day of the  Porn Film Festival Berlin  (PFFB) , and the SpotYourJoy team is beyond excited to be present at this important industry event!...

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Real Couples in Porn: Josie & Karmann...

Introduce yourselves! Who are you, what do you do for a living? Josie (J): We’re Josie and Karmann and we’re a full time porn couple. We create adult content, mostly our own....

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Hotwifing: When Your Wife's Too Hot...

Hotwifing is one of the more fascinating, yet often misunderstood, forms of consensual non-monogamy. It’s a dynamic where a wife engages in sexual relationships with other men—often...

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Consent on Set in Porn Productions

Porn is often associated with negative, exploitative practices and a lack of consent. However, many studios genuinely care about their performers' rights and focus on creating a fair,...

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Fancy a Foursome? Heat Up Your Winter...

As the cold season rolls in, what better way to warm up than with a little group play? A foursome could be the perfect way to spice up those chilly nights. Whether you're new to the idea or...

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Porn Performers and Sexual Health –...

For a porn performer, keeping oneself healthy is an important job requirement, especially when it comes to sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Over the years, the industry has developed a...

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BDSM For Beginners: A Pro Domme's Guide

1. Who are you, and what do you do for a living? Please introduce yourself briefly. I have been working as a professional dominatrix in Leipzig for just over two years. I’ve been...

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Spice up your Sex Life with your Phone

We all know that most of us are on our phones a lot of the time… I, for one, am constantly shocked and a little embarrassed by my Weekly Report of usage. We just love being on our phones!...

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Is Your Sex Life Normal?

We’re all naturally nosey as human beings, and there’s nothing we’re more curious about than other people’s sex lives - and whether we’re matching up! So what...

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