Phone Sex Games - 10 hot ideas for you and your lover

Being in a long distance relationship or being away from your partner for extended periods of time can really take its toll on your connection. However there are lots of ways to spice things up while you're apart and keep your relationship on track while having plenty of fun... Here are 10 ideas of some dirty, flirty games you can play with your partner.

1. Would You Rather?

We've all enjoyed a good game of this at some point and with a bit of tweaking this simple game can be transformed into an erotic experience that also helps you and your partner explore each other's likes and dislikes. It's simple - all you do is make all of the questions sex related - 'would you rather have sex in the kitchen or living room?', 'would you rather I kiss your neck or your inner thigh?'. You can start to make the questions more and more x-rated as you go along and then once you are together you can thoroughly enjoy your newfound knowledge.

2. What Am I Wearing?

This works best with texting - simply don a sexy outfit and text them asking them to guess what you are wearing. You can give them clues and then reward correct answers with a picture of you or your body part in the item. Once they have guessed correctly you can move onto a striptease or even an orgasm race if you fancy...

3. Striptease

You can do this as a photo sequence - it should be slow and teasing, just like a striptease in real life. Especially fun if you are both stripping!

4. Orgasm Race

Exactly as it sounds - this may not be for everyone! But it can be great fun with someone you know well and trust. If you are both on camera then it gives you both a chance to see how you like to be touched - if you're able to concentrate on that as well as what you are doing of course...

5. Guess The Body Part

Use your phone to take close up or blurred pictures of different parts of your body. You can get very creative here, photographing curves and folds to make it difficult to see what they really are.You can play with one of you photographing, or both of you photographing back and forth. Treats and rewards for correct guessing can be up to you...

6. Truth or Dare NSFW

The adult version of the game I'm sure we all played.. You can start out very tame with the questions - 'What if your favourite part of my body?' and the work your way up to things like 'What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?'. Again this gives you a chance to get to know your partner's likes and dislikes in a fun and pressure free way. For dares you can start with 'Send me a picture of you in your underwear' and then maybe later on, if you are comfortable and fully trust your partner, 'Touch yourself on camera for one minute in the way that you like most'... Great for you to show your partner what works for you and super sexy for both of you to watch.

7. Get some smart sex toys

There are now plenty of sex toys available that allow your partner to control them remotely. Why not treat yourself to one of these high tech toys and let your partner join in on a fun vibe session... For example with a remote control magnetic panty vibrator or tip massager. 

8. Sexual To Do List

This may require some preparation for you both - come up with a list of 10 things that you would like to do or try for the first time when you are together. Swap them with your partner one by one. For things that you haven't tried this is a great way to test the water on your partner's feelings. Swapping these ideas could soon have you both feeling pretty horny so be ready to try out mutual masturbation if you haven't already!

9. Sexy Shopping

Before your chat each of you go online and find 10 sexy things you like (money is no object). On the call share the links one by one and have fun seeing what you have both come up with.

10. Explore sexy apps

There are plenty of apps available that you and your partner can use together to find out personal likes and dislikes. Check out Kindu, an app that helps couples 'discover each other' - you can link to your partner and then swipe through hundreds of sexy suggestions and it will tell you where your likes match up. Hopefully this will give you a fun list of new things to try together.

I'd love to hear any games that you have played over the phone...