Guys, don't be anal about trying anal

If you’re a straight cis man, chances are that your back door is still untouched, the pleasures it holds dormant like a sleeping beauty, fenced off from the curious spectator’s eye by protective pubic hair. 

But trust me, this magic entrance is so much more than a gatekeeper to your intestines! This article is a plea for losing your fear of erotic anal pleasures, and it also aims to end the myth that anal is for gays only. Here’s a list of very good arguments why you should loosen up a bit!

Discovering the Male G-Spot

Have you already heard of the male G-spot? No? Then it’s time we talked. The prostate, also known as the male G-spot, is an extremely erogenous zone. It’s a small gland located just below the bladder and in front of the rectum, and it can only be stimulated through insertion of a finger or object into the rectum. Men report being able to experience orgasms of unique intensity merely through prostate stimulation.

Upping Your Masturbation Game

While pleasing yourself rarely gets boring with time, adding some variety is certainly not a bad idea. Your solo time is also a safe place to explore if anal is something you enjoy, and to find out how you like it. Use your fingers and toys, and don’t forget the lube. By the way, frequent ejaculation, which can be enhanced through prostate stimulation, has been linked to a lower risk of prostate cancer. So, do something for your health and get right to it!

Spicing Up Your Relationship

Straight penis owners tend to do most of the penetrative work themselves when it comes to sex. So, why not lean back and let your partner return the favour? Pegging (anal penetration with a strap-on) is becoming more and more popular as the stigma around anal sex for straight guys is losing ground. And if this is a bit too much for you to take in, there’s a whole range of anal toys from butt plugs to to vibrators, also in small sizes, to experiment with. Even just inserting a finger in your anus while having sex with your partner can provide a whole range of exciting new sensations!

Taking Care of your Mental and Emotional Health

Challenging traditional notions of masculinity and exploring a broader range of sexual activities can foster healthier, more inclusive attitudes toward sex. When we are comfortable with different aspects of our sexuality, this will lead to a greater acceptance of ourselves and others.

If your butthole is new territory for you, here are a few tips for safe exploration for beginners:

• Go Slow! 

Start with gentle stimulation. Use plenty of lubrication to ensure comfort and safety and stop when something hurts! The anus is a sensitive area and overstretching it will cause injury. Start small, only gradually increasing size if desired and always paying attention to your body’s signals.

• Keep it Clean!

Good anal hygiene practices will minimise the risk of infection or discomfort. If playing with a partner, it also makes the experience more pleasurable for them. Wash your anal area with warm water. Consider using an anal douche (affiliate link?). Barriers such as condoms or latex gloves are another helpful safety measure to prevent the transmission of bacteria or viruses. Avoid inserting anything that was previously inside your anus into another body hole, neither of yours or your partners, without prior cleansing.

• Trim your Nails

That’s a basic one, but important nonetheless. Sharp fingernails can cause a lot of damage on the delicate skin surrounding your anus, not to mention the inside of your rectum. Also, the risk of carrying viruses or bacteria under your nails increases with length.

• Communicate

If you’re exploring anal play with your partner, talk openly with them about desires, boundaries, and comfort levels. This may be new territory for your partner, too. Take it slow and listen to each other carefully.

• Listen To Your Body

Pay attention to what feels good and what doesn’t. Everyone’s preferences and comfort levels are different. Things that may have been extremely arousing in your imagination can turn out to be unpleasant in practice. There’s no shame in aborting a play session that doesn’t feel good. Don’t pretend that you can take more than you actually want. Owning one’s weakness is sexy!

If you need some inspiration how to integrate anal play into your sex life with a partner, you’ll find it in our upcoming pegging porn review “Fuck Normal”. Stay Tuned!