THE SEX BLOG: Sex-Ed

Hands-on guidance through the jungle of your love life

Gloves, Finger Cots & More: Creative...

When we talk about safe sex, condoms tend to steal the spotlight. It’s easy to assume the risk of STI transmission is low if you’re not having penetrative sex, but that’s not...

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Internal Condoms & Dental Dams for...

We’ve covered condoms and lube—now let’s talk about other STI barriers that keep things sexy and safe. If you’re struggling with external condoms or want to make your...

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Lube & Latex: Your Safe Sex Dream Team

So, we’ve talked about condoms and finding the perfect fit —now let’s make sure they feel amazing. The magic ingredient? Lube! I am a big fan of lube. It makes...

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Condoms & Compatibility: Finding the...

February isn’t just about romance—it’s also STI Awareness Month, a perfect time to talk about protection. Let's be honest: condoms can be a mood-killer if  they...

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Rewriting the Love Story: Alternative...

We’ve dedicated our last posts to unpacking myths about love and sex—the idea that passion should be effortless, that monogamy is the only valid form of commitment, or that romance...

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The Most Iconic Porn Legends and...

Not all heroes wear capes—some wear nothing at all... From breaking taboos on screen to championing sex education, body positivity, and sexual freedom, a handful of adult film legends have...

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Talking About Porn With Your Partner...

So, you want to talk about porn with your partner. Maybe you’re curious about their tastes, maybe you’d like to watch together, or maybe you just want to make sure you’re both...

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What Straight Couples Can Learn from...

Let’s be honest—straight sex can sometimes be a bit... predictable. Many heterosexual couples fall into familiar routines, relying on the same positions, the same moves, and,...

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What Does Sexual Diversity Look Like...

Sexual diversity in 2025 is as vibrant, complex, and beautifully messy as ever, even in the face of some looming challenges. While progress has been made in many areas, recent political...

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Yes, No, Maybe – What Do I Want In...

Communication can be one of the hardest things to master in a relationship. I am sure we have all experienced what a lack of communication feels like, and many problems that arise in...

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5 ways to feel more confident (not...

Confidence. It's something that we love on other people. At a party you can usually find a confident person holding court, telling stories and making people laugh. At some point in our lives...

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Dirty Talk and Beyond: Communicating...

Talking dirty, or talking at all, is not an easy task when it comes to sexual encounters. Even seasoned lovers may struggle to find the right words to spark the flame. And even if our minds are...

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What Does Consent Look Like in Real...

Consent isn’t just a buzzword—it’s the ultimate game-changer for better, hotter, and safer connections. It’s about everyone being on the same page and loving every second...

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Curiosity & Communication for Lovers

Are we still making love or performing for an imaginary audience? Have you ever been in bed with someone and it felt like a performance? A lover who was determined to get through a...

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World AIDS Day: How the Adult...

Every December 1, World AIDS Day brings global attention to the fight against HIV/AIDS, honoring those we've lost and reaffirming commitments to prevention, education, and support. It's a...

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The Best Alternatives to Monogamy And...

In recent decades, the concept of monogamy has shifted from being the unquestioned standard to one of many valid relationship structures in the Western world. Historically, monogamy was often...

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The Peep Show is On! Celebrate Your...

Ever catch yourself getting just a bit too interested in a stranger’s public displays of affection or sneaking a glance when no one’s looking? That little rush of excitement? Yep,...

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Consent on Set in Porn Productions

Porn is often associated with negative, exploitative practices and a lack of consent. However, many studios genuinely care about their performers' rights and focus on creating a fair,...

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BDSM For Beginners: A Pro Domme's Guide

1. Who are you, and what do you do for a living? Please introduce yourself briefly. I have been working as a professional dominatrix in Leipzig for just over two years. I’ve been...

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Choking: An Introduction to Safer...

Are You Thinking About Choking? Let’s Talk About It Ever watched a steamy porn scene and wondered, “could we try that?” If choking has ever crossed your mind,...

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What is Impact Play? – A Quick Guide

Ever wondered why some people find a playful slap or the sting of a paddle so exciting? Well, you're not alone. Kinks and fantasies come in all shapes and forms, and impact play is one that...

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Butt Fun: Anal Sex (Not Only) for...

If you’ve been reading our recent posts, you will know that we’re big fans of anal pleasure for all . Yes, for all (looking at you, straight guys…)!  Anal sex, often...

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A la Francaise - Are the French...

When it comes to all things romance and sensuality, few cultures spring to mind more than the French. From the allure of French cinema to their seductive erotic literature, France has long held...

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How Many Women Really Have Lesbian...

When it comes to girl-on-girl fantasies, especially within porn, there’s an old-fashioned perception that it’s something produced to please straight men (seeing two women together?...

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