THE SEX BLOG: Self-Care

Hands-on guidance through the jungle of your love life

Talking About Porn With Your Partner...

So, you want to talk about porn with your partner. Maybe you’re curious about their tastes, maybe you’d like to watch together, or maybe you just want to make sure you’re both...

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Yes, No, Maybe – What Do I Want In...

Communication can be one of the hardest things to master in a relationship. I am sure we have all experienced what a lack of communication feels like, and many problems that arise in...

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5 ways to feel more confident (not...

Confidence. It's something that we love on other people. At a party you can usually find a confident person holding court, telling stories and making people laugh. At some point in our lives...

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The Art of Saying No: A Guide to...

Saying no is one of the simplest (and shortest) phrases in the world—but for many, it feels like one of the hardest to say. Especially for people pleasers, turning someone down can bring a...

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Happy XXXMas from the SpotYourJoy Team!

The holiday season is a time to pause, connect, and celebrate. While not everyone wants to dive into festive traditions, there are countless ways to enjoy this special time. Some spend it with...

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Nofap: Can Abstinence Be Toxic?

In the spirit of Movember, as mustaches sprout up to raise awareness for men’s health, let’s dissect another “men’s health” trend: nofap. Just in case...

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Consent on Set in Porn Productions

Porn is often associated with negative, exploitative practices and a lack of consent. However, many studios genuinely care about their performers' rights and focus on creating a fair,...

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7 Tips For Sexual Confidence 

We would probably all love to feel more sexually confident sometimes. Of course, like all types on confidence, much of this comes down to self love and is also fluid, some days you may feel...

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5 Reasons to Have Sex Today

Whether with a partner or solo, sex has so many benefits that you'd be silly not to take advantage of some intimacy today... Set aside some time, get your bedroom set up for sensuality -...

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Butt Fun: Anal Sex (Not Only) for...

If you’ve been reading our recent posts, you will know that we’re big fans of anal pleasure for all . Yes, for all (looking at you, straight guys…)!  Anal sex, often...

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How to have the perfect holiday fling

Summer is almost over, but it’s never too late for a last-minute trip or a few days off to enjoy the sun! And what’s a good vacation without a holiday fling?  If you’re...

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The Secrets of Female Solo Sex

There's a lot of curiosity about the question how, and especially how often, women* engage in solo sex. The internet is full of related articles and studies. Let’s get that...

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