THE SEX BLOG: Relationships

Hands-on guidance through the jungle of your love life

Beyond the Fairytale: Challenging...

Ah, Valentine’s Day—the season of heart-shaped chocolates, candlelit dinners, and social media feeds flooded with #CoupleGoals. It’s the time of year when we’re bombarded...

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What Straight Couples Can Learn from...

Let’s be honest—straight sex can sometimes be a bit... predictable. Many heterosexual couples fall into familiar routines, relying on the same positions, the same moves, and,...

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Yes, No, Maybe – What Do I Want In...

Communication can be one of the hardest things to master in a relationship. I am sure we have all experienced what a lack of communication feels like, and many problems that arise in...

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Please, Sir: The Art of Begging in...

In our last article, we looked at the magic of the word "No" and how to master the art of saying it. Today, let's look at another powerful word to add to your boudoir...

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The Art of Saying No: A Guide to...

Saying no is one of the simplest (and shortest) phrases in the world—but for many, it feels like one of the hardest to say. Especially for people pleasers, turning someone down can bring a...

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Dirty Talk and Beyond: Communicating...

Talking dirty, or talking at all, is not an easy task when it comes to sexual encounters. Even seasoned lovers may struggle to find the right words to spark the flame. And even if our minds are...

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Curiosity & Communication for Lovers

Are we still making love or performing for an imaginary audience? Have you ever been in bed with someone and it felt like a performance? A lover who was determined to get through a...

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Happy XXXMas from the SpotYourJoy Team!

The holiday season is a time to pause, connect, and celebrate. While not everyone wants to dive into festive traditions, there are countless ways to enjoy this special time. Some spend it with...

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Winter Wardrobe – A Styling Guide...

The cold season calls not only for cozy nights but also for steamy seduction. Why not let your wardrobe become an invitation to raise the temperature? Here’s our SpotYourJoy style guide...

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What to Do for Winter Holidays...

The holiday season is here, and while "being naughty" might already be on your to-do list, why not elevate your festivities with something a little different? Sexy escapes, decadent...

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How Real Couple Adult Films Bring...

The adult film industry is evolving, and one of the most meaningful changes is the rise of real couple adult films. These home-made productions go beyond staged performances, offering viewers an...

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The Best Alternatives to Monogamy And...

In recent decades, the concept of monogamy has shifted from being the unquestioned standard to one of many valid relationship structures in the Western world. Historically, monogamy was often...

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Real Couples in Porn: Josie & Karmann...

Introduce yourselves! Who are you, what do you do for a living? Josie (J): We’re Josie and Karmann and we’re a full time porn couple. We create adult content, mostly our own....

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Hotwifing: When Your Wife's Too Hot...

Hotwifing is one of the more fascinating, yet often misunderstood, forms of consensual non-monogamy. It’s a dynamic where a wife engages in sexual relationships with other men—often...

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Fancy a Foursome? Heat Up Your Winter...

As the cold season rolls in, what better way to warm up than with a little group play? A foursome could be the perfect way to spice up those chilly nights. Whether you're new to the idea or...

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Spice up your Sex Life with your Phone

We all know that most of us are on our phones a lot of the time… I, for one, am constantly shocked and a little embarrassed by my Weekly Report of usage. We just love being on our phones!...

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Have you ever tried mutual masturbation?

It's important to have a good self care routine. This looks different for everyone of course, but self love and pleasure should definitely be high up on your list of how to look after...

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Phone Sex Games - 10 hot ideas for...

Being in a long distance relationship or being away from your partner for extended periods of time can really take its toll on your connection. However there are lots of ways to spice things up...

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