Want to take oral sex to the next level? It’s time to play with fire — and ice. Temperature play adds an extra hot (!) sensory twist, turning your mouth into a playground of...
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We’ve covered condoms and lube—now let’s talk about other STI barriers that keep things sexy and safe. If you’re struggling with external condoms or want to make your...
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So, we’ve talked about condoms and finding the perfect fit —now let’s make sure they feel amazing. The magic ingredient? Lube! I am a big fan of lube. It makes...
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Everyone loves a cheeky solo session, but when was the last time you switched things up? Exploring new sensations can heighten pleasure and make masturbation even more exciting. We already...
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February isn’t just about romance—it’s also STI Awareness Month, a perfect time to talk about protection. Let's be honest: condoms can be a mood-killer if they...
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So, you want to talk about porn with your partner. Maybe you’re curious about their tastes, maybe you’d like to watch together, or maybe you just want to make sure you’re both...
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Confidence. It's something that we love on other people. At a party you can usually find a confident person holding court, telling stories and making people laugh. At some point in our lives...
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Saying no is one of the simplest (and shortest) phrases in the world—but for many, it feels like one of the hardest to say. Especially for people pleasers, turning someone down can bring a...
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Talking dirty, or talking at all, is not an easy task when it comes to sexual encounters. Even seasoned lovers may struggle to find the right words to spark the flame. And even if our minds are...
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Are we still making love or performing for an imaginary audience? Have you ever been in bed with someone and it felt like a performance? A lover who was determined to get through a...
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New year, new you— and new moves in the bedroom (or wherever you like to get frisky).If your resolution is to make your sex life hotter than last year’s summer heatwave,...
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The cold season calls not only for cozy nights but also for steamy seduction. Why not let your wardrobe become an invitation to raise the temperature? Here’s our SpotYourJoy style guide...
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As the cold season rolls in, what better way to warm up than with a little group play? A foursome could be the perfect way to spice up those chilly nights. Whether you're new to the idea or...
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We all know that most of us are on our phones a lot of the time… I, for one, am constantly shocked and a little embarrassed by my Weekly Report of usage. We just love being on our phones!...
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Are You Thinking About Choking? Let’s Talk About It Ever watched a steamy porn scene and wondered, “could we try that?” If choking has ever crossed your mind,...
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Ever wondered why some people find a playful slap or the sting of a paddle so exciting? Well, you're not alone. Kinks and fantasies come in all shapes and forms, and impact play is one that...
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We would probably all love to feel more sexually confident sometimes. Of course, like all types on confidence, much of this comes down to self love and is also fluid, some days you may feel...
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If you’re a straight cis man, chances are that your back door is still untouched, the pleasures it holds dormant like a sleeping beauty, fenced off from the curious spectator’s eye...
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Being in a long distance relationship or being away from your partner for extended periods of time can really take its toll on your connection. However there are lots of ways to spice things up...
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Masturbation can be an extremely rewarding part of your self care routine. Focussing, concentrating just on yourself and taking unapologetic me-time. Exploring your body. Getting to know more...
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